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Sep 26, 2012

When Is Hanging Out With Your Significant Other Too Much? [HE SAID/SHE SAID]

Having a new girlfriend is exciting — aside from sex when you want it, you also get to have someone...

May 2, 2012

The Rules of the Game [HE SAID/SHE SAID]

Dating, like Monopoly or Chutes and Ladders, is often a confusing game that can very easily get complicated and lead...

Nov 2, 2011

Does Technology Make Cheating Harder? [HE SAID / SHE SAID]

This week's "He Said / She Said" addresses technology's impact on cheating. Most cheaters yearn for a time when accessibility was toned way down; when there were only one or two ways to get in touch with someone - mail (as in the Post Office) or landline phone (as in I'm not home, I'm not taking your call). While there are more opportunities to cheat, there are also more ways to get caught. Read our take on technology's effects on relationships then vote in our poll after the jump.

He Said / She Said: Manswers to Questions From The Fairer Sex

Girls asking questions, what else is new? Jokes aside, in last week's He Said / She Said, we posed some questions to the ladies and received some great answers. Simultaneously, the girls at College Candy asked us a few things about how our awesome man-brains react to some of the things that they do or say. While usually we just ignore their questions (you would too if you had to explain a microwave eleven-million times), we felt obliged to give the girls a peek into what goes on in our head. Check out our answers to questions like "Is it a fear of commitment or are you just using the girl?", "Do guys have underlying meanings to stuff they say?" and other questions that drive women crazy after the jump

Oct 12, 2011

He Said / She Said: Sex-tiquette

It 's kind of weird to apply rules to sex. If anything, sex should be a time to let loose and enjoy yourself. When you get hung up on the little stuff, that's when you miss out on the bigger picture. But, everyone has their limits, their boundaries, their red flags, and their pet peeves. I once had a chick who was into scratching. I thought I was going to die. A friend of mine said his hook up wanted him to choke her. Another lady wanted to be tied up. Different strokes for different folks, I guess. But, if you want to consistently secure repeat business, you have to be somewhat mindful of your partner. What works for you might not work for her. Check out our take on sex etiquette after the jump.

Sep 27, 2011

He Said / She Said: How To Talk Dirty In 7 Filthy Steps

It takes one smooth operator to pull off talkin' dirty. The one time I tried wasn't so bad, but it wasn't anything ground-breaking. It was really just stating the facts, ma'am. You try to get creative with it and you end up with something like "My d*ck feels like corn". Yeah, sure, it worked out for Dane Cook because his hook up was a pro, but 9 times out of 10 that quote's like pulling the emergency brake. So, if you're willing to take the plunge and let it all hang out, here are some key tips to keep in mind.

Sep 20, 2011

Sep 13, 2011

He Said / She Said: What Do You Consider Hooking Up?

We've covered a sh*t ton of polarizing subjects in "He Said / She Said", but I think this one might take the cake. I've legit argued with a group of girls over the term "hook up" (and every variation thereof) for hours on end with no amicable or mutual compromise in sight - other than it occurs with someone you're NOT in a relationship with. We dudes tend to be more lenient with it, toss it around like a 'bee. Chicks, though. Chicks take this sh*t seriously. So, how do the sexes define "hooking up"? Find out after the jump.

Aug 23, 2011

He Said / She Said: The 6 Most Devastating Mood Killers

When logical thinking gives way to passion, you’re quite likely to say something that seems, in retrospect, pretty stupid. And, occasionally these things will be a total mood killer. Everybody loves a bit of dirty talk, and self-censorship is only denying yourself pleasure, but remember - there’s another person involved in the entire thing. With that in mind, check out what dudes think are the six most devastating mood killers after the jump.

Aug 16, 2011

He Said / She Said: Rating Chicks

For the most part, dudes are visually driven beasts who enjoy stats, facts, numbers, and figures. Most chicks are more in tune with fashion and emotional values. So, it's easy to see why there would be such disparity when rating the opposite sex between the genders. Just look at Hot or Not. The women always have lower ratings than the guys. Women tend to be more lenient and forgiving on physical looks, while dudes are ruthless, picking apart every single physical characteristic like vultures. Is she a b*tch? Who cares? She's hot! Check out how we rate chicks after the jump.

Jul 19, 2011

He Said / She Said: 6 Common Kinds of Miscommunication Between The Sexes

He Said/She Said is a dating, sex, and relationship series designed to help dudes understand what chicks are thinking – we know, an impossible feat. Every week we’ll be throwing out a different topic for debate…you can read the guy’s side here and the girl’s side at CollegeCandy.com. This week’s topic: The 6 most common types of miscommunication between the sexes. Check out our side after the jump.

Jul 12, 2011

He Said / She Said: 9 White Lies Guys Tell Girls

He Said/She Said is a dating, sex, and relationship series designed to help dudes understand what chicks are thinking – we know, an impossible feat. Every week we’ll be throwing out a different topic for debate…you can read the guy’s side here and the girl’s side at CollegeCandy.com . This week’s topic: little white lies guys tell girls. Check out our side after the jump.

Jul 5, 2011

He Said / She Said: Top 10 Signs We’re Not Interested In You

He Said/She Said is a dating, sex, and relationship series designed to help dudes understand what chicks are thinking – we know, an impossible feat. Every week we’ll be throwing out a different topic for debate…you can read the guy’s side here and the girl’s side at CollegeCandy.com. This week’s topic: signs we're not interested in a chick.

Jun 28, 2011

He Said / She Said: How We REALLY Handle Break-ups

He Said/She Said is a dating, sex, and relationship series designed to help dudes understand what chicks are thinking – we know, an impossible feat. Every week we’ll be throwing out a different topic for debate…you can read the guy’s side here and the girl’s side at CollegeCandy.com. This week’s topic: How Each Gender REALLY Handles Break-ups. Check out how dudes cope after the jump.

Jun 21, 2011

He Said / She Said: 5 Things We Think Girls Do After Breaking Up With Us

He Said/She Said is a dating, sex, and relationship series designed to help dudes understand what chicks are thinking – we know, an impossible feat. Every week we’ll be throwing out a different topic for debate…you can read the guy’s side here and the girl’s side at CollegeCandy.com. This week’s topic: How Us Dudes Think Chicks Handle Breaking Up. Check out our side after the jump!

Jun 7, 2011

He Said / She Said: Meeting The Parents

He Said/She Said is a new dating, sex, and relationship advice series designed to help dudes understand what chicks are thinking - we know, an impossible feat. Every week we’ll be throwing out a different topic for debate…you can read the guy’s side here and the girl’s side at CollegeCandy.com. This week’s topic: meeting the parents.