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May 16, 2012

An Open Letter to Women About Goin’ Down [HE SAID/SHE SAID]

I think I safely speak for most guys when I say that a girl who listens to David Blowie is...

May 10, 2012

Why Can’t You Just Be Her Friend? [He Said/She Said]

No matter how good looking or playerific you think you are, some girl, somewhere has put you in the friend...

May 2, 2012

The Rules of the Game [HE SAID/SHE SAID]

Dating, like Monopoly or Chutes and Ladders, is often a confusing game that can very easily get complicated and lead...

How To Let Her Know Exactly How Kinky You Are [HE SAID/SHE SAID]

I’ve been seeing a lot people reading 50 Shades of Grey on the subway lately — so much that I...

Apr 25, 2012

What Do We Look For In A Woman [HE SAID/SHE SAID]

When it comes to women, everyone has their particular type. Some like ’em big, some like ’em small, some like...

Apr 18, 2012

When Should You Ask For A Girl’s “Number”? [HE SAID/SHE SAID]

The magic number = how many people you’ve slept with, know in the biblical sense, taken to pound town, the...

Apr 11, 2012

Apr 4, 2012

How Much Does Your Friend’s Opinion Matter? [HE SAID/SHE SAID]

No matter how you cut it, when you are dating someone, you’re definitely not just dating that person. You’re really...

Mar 28, 2012

Should You Get Back With Your Ex?

Getting back with your ex… well, this is a tough one, but I have to say 9 times out of...

Jan 18, 2012

Women Are Crazy + Other Mostly True Stereotypes Men Know [He Said / She Said]

I’m sure you’re familiar with the phrase “Men are from Earth, Women are from Venus” but (generally speaking) stereotypes are...

Jan 4, 2012

The Guy’s Guide To Cuddling, Spooning, and Hugging [HE SAID SHE SAID]

Everyone's aware of the stereotypical fact that guys like to fall asleep after sex and girls like to cuddle, so if the chick you banged makes the cut, we're giving you 4 acceptable methods of post-sex spooning / snuggling / cuddling. Click to check the techniques and feel free to tell us about positions we missed in the comments.

Dec 7, 2011

A Honest Man’s Take On Handjobs [He Said / She Said]

The handjob is like the Pre-Bolshevik Russia of sex moves; it seems like a good idea at the time, but its execution usually results in pain, suffering, a lot of complaining, and finally upheaval with the people taking matters into their own hands (literally). In this edition of He Said / She Said, we're taking a look at the bane of adult men everywhere: the handjob.

Nov 16, 2011

Should You Hook Up With Your High School Crush This Thanksgiving Break? [He Said/She Said]

To crush or not to crush, that is the question that hundreds of thousands of college freshmen will be asking themselves this Thanksgiving break when they return home for the first time. I know that a lot of you are returning home with a newfound sense of confidence and worldly knowledge, so of course there's an urge to share your experiences (and your penis) with your old high school crush. But before you go ahead and make the moves on the girl you didn't dare to before, let us help you weigh the consequences. We go through the pros and cons of hooking up with your old flame after the jump!

Nov 10, 2011

How To Handle Your Break-Up Like A Man [He Said / She Said]

The last time that I wrote a "He Said" section of this column, it didn't go over too well with the ladies. It would seem that I wasn't kind enough. Whoops. Girls, this isn't called "What She Wanted Me To Say," which, coincidentally, would be a conversation I would be great at due to years of having a girlfriend. At the moment, though, I'm single and ready to mingle. This week, I'm going to discuss the difficult transition between breaking up to being happily single and some things you can do to help yourself along the way. So pack your bags (or maybe she's done that for you) because we're headed to single-town after the jump.

Nov 2, 2011

Does Technology Make Cheating Harder? [HE SAID / SHE SAID]

This week's "He Said / She Said" addresses technology's impact on cheating. Most cheaters yearn for a time when accessibility was toned way down; when there were only one or two ways to get in touch with someone - mail (as in the Post Office) or landline phone (as in I'm not home, I'm not taking your call). While there are more opportunities to cheat, there are also more ways to get caught. Read our take on technology's effects on relationships then vote in our poll after the jump.

Sep 27, 2011

He Said / She Said: Sex-tiquette

It 's kind of weird to apply rules to sex. If anything, sex should be a time to let loose and enjoy yourself. When you get hung up on the little stuff, that's when you miss out on the bigger picture. But, everyone has their limits, their boundaries, their red flags, and their pet peeves. I once had a chick who was into scratching. I thought I was going to die. A friend of mine said his hook up wanted him to choke her. Another lady wanted to be tied up. Different strokes for different folks, I guess. But, if you want to consistently secure repeat business, you have to be somewhat mindful of your partner. What works for you might not work for her. Check out our take on sex etiquette after the jump.