Do you have doubts about your current relationship? Is it the jitters over commitment or is the relationship done? Here are some tips to help you make a decision to keep or dump your mate.
Complaining: “Do you complain about your lover to your friends? If you do more complaining than complimenting, this is a sign things are on the decline.”
“Her friends never wanted to see me? I used to get along with them, but they started hating me because she would complain to them.”
The Passion is Gone: “Do you make love as often as you used to? In a relationship, there is a natural decline in sexual relations over time, but usually when the sex takes a significant dive, it can indicate there are deep problems in the relationship.”
“Every time I approach her for sex, she always has an excuse. Usually she said she was too tired.”
Being With Them/Without Them: “How do you feel most of the time when you are with your lover? How do you feel when you are away from them? If you find that you want to be away from your lover more than you want to be with them, it’s time to think about moving on.”
User Example 1:
“My girlfriend left for the week and I’ve never felt better!”
User Example 2:”
“Sometimes when we would sit on the couch and talk, I would think nothing but ‘shut the hell up!’ when she talked.”
Picking Fights: “Are either of you finding reasons to fight? Fighting is normal, but if it’s on a grand scale and usually about things that used to not even matter, chances are the towers will come crashing down soon.”
“She complained that I left the basement light on when she does it herself.”
Long-Term Plans: “Do you talk about long-term plans together? If those conversations are only one-sided, you aren’t both really vested in the relationship.”
“We were engaged but she never wanted to talk about the wedding plans.”
“Use these tips with it in mind that everybody has bad weeks or months. Things may change or can be worked out. These tips are meant to help in identifying long term problems. Hopefully you feel better about your relationship after reading this article. If not, it’s time to move on.”
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