âMost men naturally assume that itâs the MAN who must pursue the woman. But guys who are naturals at succeeding with women donât buy into this belief â and itâs a big part of why theyâre always with the most attractive women. What would your life be like if instead of chasing women, women chased you? Here are 10 tips to shift the dynamic in your favor and get women tripping over themselves for a space on your social calendar.â?
Number 4: Stay on your own course
Most men orient themselves by following and seeking approval of the woman. She leads, they follow; in fact, she isnât even leading, but the man tries to convince her to lead with questions and body language that seek approval. This is a horrible mistake, and annoys women to no end. Instead, stay on your course, even when sheâs all over the map. Let her reorient her body, behavior, moods, and responses to YOURS. Donât ever try to get her to lead. Show her youâre the kind of man who loves to be the captain of your own ship, and sheâll feel an undeniable attraction to you.
Number 3: Never backpedal or explain yourself
If you say or do something that seems to upset a woman, donât try to explain your way out of it or do something to âmake her feel better.â? Donât act like you screwed up or show her that youâre nervous just because sheâs acting upset. Just move on as if nothing happened. Get right on to the next topic or story. If she stays on it, whines or complains, just say âGet over it, it was a joke, stop being a pain,â? and then get on to the next topic again. If you try to backpedal or explain yourself or in any way hint that you think youâve âscrewed up,â? youâre DEAD MEAT. If you say something and she doesnât like it, thatâs not YOUR problem. Women often complain to see if they can manipulate you with their emotions, and when you show you donât fall for this, her respect and ATTRACTION for you will go through the roof.
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