How To Tell If She’s A Kinky Super Freak

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You’re at the bar looking for a hot girl who looks like she wants to hook up, but not just a make out sesh followed by a phone number. You’re looking to meet a girl who’s just as devious as you are. Asking a girl if she’s into anal isn’t exactly the easiest thing to casually drop into conversation, though. You also know that some of the girls in this club have got to be totally into it, all you really need is a strategy to find them. In court, you might refer to what we’re discussing as “leading the witness”. PUA Training’s Head Coach Adam Lyons breaks it down below.

Adam teaches a theory on something called ‘qualification hoops’ as part of PUA Training’s bootcamps for when you want to move on from just having friendly banter with a girl to something much more seductive. Qualification is all about getting a girl to gradually reveal her intimate thoughts, whilst you lead the interaction in the direction you want it to take. You may not want to ask, ‘Are you into anal?’ right off the bat; but I’d bet you’d ask a girl what she did for fun?

The idea is that you start small and get her to answer a question that isn’t too risqué. As she warms up to chatting to you, you can move the interaction on to filthier topics. Just make sure you volunteer some information back so it doesn’t sound too much like an interview.

Here is a concentrated version of what the interaction might go like: in ‘real life’ though you’d be talking in more detail, about different subjects in-between and ordering ‘social lubricant’ to get the sordid stuff out easier:

YOU: “So, what do you do for fun?”

HOT CHICK: “I like playing sports: tennis, running and even surfing.”

YOU: “Surfing? I like that. What’s your craziest surfing story?”

HOT CHICK: “Well, there was this one time I thought there was a shark… but it turned out to be just a big patch of seaweed.”

(Lame. Time to up the ante. Girls like to be challenged.)

YOU: “That’s it? Come on, you must have a better story than that! What’s the most adventurous thing you’ve ever done?”

HOT CHICK: “Hmm, well there was this one time I hooked up with a guy in one of the lecture halls in between classes at college.”

(If she doesn’t go to the hook up story right away, you’ll just need to work your way there. Might have to trade a couple increasingly provocative stories in the interim. If she goes to something sexual right away, you’re in there like swimwear)

YOU: “Now we’re talkin’. I had you pegged as a nice girl, but it sounds like you have a wild side. I still don’t think you’re as wild as me, though. I’ve done the whole hook up in public thing but I don’t want to corrupt your innocent ears.”

(If she says, ‘thanks’ you know she’s not into it. You can keep pressing but it’s important to know when to cut the cord. If you’ve been talking for more than 5 minutes and it’s not getting flirty or sexual, bail.)

HOT CHICK: “What did you do??”

YOU: “Me and this totally insane girl skipped out of our class and got nuts in our professor’s office while he lectured. I mean, NOTHING was off-limits. I’ve never done anything like that before but I’ve been trying to one up it ever since. It was amazing. What about you? Do you have any rules when it comes to hooking up?

Her body language and response to that question should be a clear cut indicator of what kind of girl she is and what kind of night you’re about to have. Some girls try to talk a big game to keep you interested but end up sucking. It’s important to get her to a point where she’s confessing and not beating around the bush or giving you the run around.

In order to move the conversation this way, you will require skill and the ability to truly interpret what the other person is feeling, plus the know-how to adjust how far you push things. Remember, if she seems unwilling to jump through a hoop and move onto more sexual topics, don’t press her for this; stick to a level she feels comfortable with.

Don’t worry though, sooner or later, you’ll hit all the responses you want: but you’ve got to be brave enough to start asking the questions.

For more advice on how to turn normal interactions naughty check out www.puatraining.com

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